Trust?

Respect

There's a deep respect for authority all across Asia. Old folks are honored more than young people, and teachers often get the most respect (except for parents). So, that puts me in good standing here: old professor! One benefit of gray hair in the classroom. :) In Thailand, young people typically exhibit a folded hands posture to older people, instead of handshaking. It's quite charming.

Although respect is admirable, there's a danger of taking it too far. It's as if the leaders can do no wrong. History is filled with examples of bad people having too much influence over others. It can lead to group-think, instead of individual action and personal responsibility. Trust can also inhibit creativity. Why think differently, just do what other people tell you. For example, many Asians have a hard time thinking outside the box. Students simply memorize information and call it learning. 

However, I think that America has gone too far in the opposite direction. It's as if we don't respect any body, any time. Sarcasm and cynicism are signs of weakness, not strength. But why should we trust others when we've been burned so many times before in friendships, marriages, and at work? Worst of all are our politicians. Those who actually trust the government are in the minority. So, trust is good and doubting is good. Which is better? It's bad if you don't trust anybody. It's equally bad if you trust everybody. Which is worse?

Trust is a problem worldwide (either too much or not enough). You are part of it. So am I. Let's do something about it.